I know - not my idea of fun either.
I couldn’t imagine how we were going to keep the newborn quiet or walk the dog without anyone noticing. But one does not usually contradict Dad. While the rest of us worried and fretted about the mechanics of this arrangement, Dad explored the ship, delighted in the buffet lines, talked to everyone he met and generally had a good time.
I woke laughing. How like my Dad to try and save money, and to disappear for hours, enjoying himself thoroughly. Not that he usually did anything illegal like stowing away on a cruise ship. But he did take us on trips to Europe, where we had to survive on breakfast and an ice cream a day.
Or trips in the USA, where all 6 of us stuffed into one hotel room – lined up on the floor like soldiers in barracks. And he regularly dropped Mum, girls and luggage at our gate and then disappeared to explore the airport for the next few hours. Sometimes, he almost missed the flight, and since he had the tickets and our passports, so did we. But he always had stories of all the delights he found.
Ah – the ‘good old’ days.Dad won’t be taking us on anymore trips.
But it seems that my imagination, at least, will make up new ones to share with him.
I really enjoyed your latest blogs Alex. You're right about the strange things the mind (and heart) does. When Mum died she kept turning up in my dreams all the time - not doing anything particular, but there she was! It was like she had been such a powerful presence one way or another until then, there had to be some place for her. I've heard that often when someone looses their sight, they dream in technocolour for a while... ooo Love Jackie
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